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Yoni Massage
What Is A Yoni? Yoni is another word for the vulva. Many in the tantra world use it as a more respectful and sacred naming of the female genitals. The male equivalent is “lingam.” What Is A Yoni...
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Urban Tantra on How To Touch
Urban Tantra author Barbara Carrellas shares one of her favorite principles of erotic touch, The Resilient Edge of Resistance. This important concept is all about finding “just right” where the touch...
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Stop Being So Anal
Stop being so anal! You are such a tight ass! These phrases aren’t metaphors: we all have too much anal tension and it gets in the way of our sexual health and pleasure. In this podcast (hit the play...
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The Myth Of Spontaneous Sex
In this podcast Charlotte reads and talks about an excerpt from Esther Perel’s book: Mating In Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. She grapples with the myth that spontaneous sex is good sex,...
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Facesitting
Facesitting is a very common fantasy for men (and women who have sex with women!) Facesitting is also sometimes called Queening, which is a beautiful term that draws attention to the idea that the...
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The Truth About Men and Sex
Hear what a Harvard urologist has to say about men’s sexuality after 25 years in clinical practice. Men’s sexuality is much more complex and fascinating than we are led to believe! This episode...
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Cuddling
Cuddling is one of the most important things you can do for your relationship. Cuddling offers many benefits for your physical health and for your relationship. Every expert – from sex educators to...
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An Ode To Chris
At the time of recording it is Chris’s Birthday, so Charlotte thought she’d do an ode to Chris on her birthday. As some of you may know from our tell all episode, episode 100. I first met Chris as...
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Healthy Fucking
What is the difference between having sex, making love and fucking? The same physical acts can create very different subjective experiences. Many of us crave more fucking, but don’t know quite how to...
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Love Sex Again
Do you remember what it feels like to love sex? To look forward to making love? To daydream about being hot and sweaty under the sheets with your lover? For so many of us, those days are in the past,...
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Ecstasy Is Necessary
This podcast features an excerpt from Ecstasy Is Necessary by Barbara Carrellas Pleasure Mechanic Charlotte writes: We all crave ecstasy, whether or not we acknowledge it or name it that way. We each...
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Sex During Pregnancy
Have questions about sex during pregnancy? Most pregnant couples do! Listen to the podcast for all of our best advice about sex during pregnancy (just hit the “play” button at the top of this page to...
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Fetish Sex
In this podcast, we share an excerpt from Violet Blue’s Fetish Sex: A Complete Guide To Sexual Fetishes You can check out more of Violet Blue’s writing on her website, tinynibbles.com What Is Fetish...
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Pelvic Floor Exercises For Better Sex
What Are The Pelvic Floor Muscles? 2 layers of muscle that hold up organs and hold bones of pelvis together. Also includes the muscles of orifices: urethra, anus and vagina The pelvic diaphragm is the...
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When you are exploring erotic bondage, you must keep a few simple safety guidelines in mind. Above All, Trust Never do bondage with someone you do not know and trust. When you allow someone to put you...
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Kinky Communication 101 with Patrick Califia
Patrick Califia, one of the best known BDSM educators, shares a five step communication cycle for talking to your partner about sexual fantasies, kinky sex and other forbidden subjects. These erotic...
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Sex and Depression with JoEllen Notte
Millions of people struggle with chronic depression – and all of them have a sexuality. Yet the relationship between sex and depression is rarely discussed. On this podcast episode, JoEllen Notte...
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How to Ask for Sex Without Being Creepy
This episode was inspired by a brilliant blog post from Charlie Glickman. Read the entire post on How To Ask For Sex Without Being Creepy Charlie Glickman is a veteran sex educator having been...
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Romantic Sex
What makes sex romantic? There is a myth that all sex is romantic – this is far from true. Sex can be totally primal, focused exclusively on the physical sensations and release. Sex can be anonymous...
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Erotic Failure: No Such Thing
At one point or another, we all feel like a failure in the realm of romance and sex. When relationships end, when our sex life isn’t what we want it to be, when we feel like we’ve let someone down,...
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