Finding New Pleasure Pathways
We all develop pleasure ruts – our most reliable pathways to pleasure, arousal and orgasm. How do we break out of ruts and find new pleasure pathways? How can we encourage exploration in our...
View ArticleHow To Be More Romantic
Want more romance? Want your partner to be more romantic? Want to be more romantic and be able to express your love? Let’s start with thinking about what being romantic even means! Beyond the package...
View ArticleTaking Sexy Back : An Interview With Dr. Alexandra Solomon
In this interview, Alexandra Solomon PhD joins us to discuss her new book Taking Sexy Back : How To Own Your Sexuality & Create The Relationships You Want (New Harbinger, 2020) It’s time to flip...
View ArticleFucking Vs. Making Love
In this encore of Speaking of Sex episode #178, we discuss the difference in the experience of “making love” vs. “fucking” – which of course is not a simple binary and yet resonates for so many of us....
View ArticleLove In The Time Of Corona
Please visit PleasureMechanics.com/care for updated resources on this global emergency – we love you – stay safe, stay connected. This podcast was recorded on March 11, 2020, after we were recovering...
View ArticleLoveInTheTimeOfCorona Dispatch 1: Overwhelm
A quick dispatch amidst all of the disruption and overwhelm of the global coronavirus pandemic. Our home ground during this global emergency will be https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/care During this...
View ArticleMutual Aid & Generating Care with Aida Manduley
Mutual Aid is an ethos of care that has risen out of multiple communities – including the disability rights movement & immigrant communities- that invites us to consider our interconnected webs of...
View ArticleResources For Explore More Participants
Hello dear ones! We hope the Explore More Summit was as nourishing and transformative for you as it was for us! Here are a few curated links to get you started with Pleasure Mechanics resources. After...
View ArticleTogether and Alone : Eroticism During Social Distancing
Social distancing has quickly changed all of our lives – but in very different ways. Some of us are alone, some of us are together with family and no respite in sight. How is social distancing...
View ArticleDesperately Seeking Sensation
We humans are pleasure and rewards seeking animals – we must actively seek out the food, hydration and human connection that sustain us. The Zuckerman Sensation Seeking Scale is one framework that...
View ArticleCultivate Your Erotic Context
Context is perhaps the most important factor in how you experience your sexuality. Context is all of the factors in the external environment AND in your internal landscape that create the story of each...
View ArticleAnti Racist Embodied Action
5/30/2020: We are currently creating an Anti-Racist Embodied Action Toolkit. Goal is to have first version available for free enrollment in June 2020 Submissions / Collaborations: If you want to...
View ArticleTurning Towards Pleasure While Living With Pain & Illness
Illness, injury, accidents and other sudden health changes disrupt our lives on all levels – including our sexuality, relationships and even our sense of identity. When our bodies experience massive...
View ArticleThe Key To Pleasure and Connection
What is the master key to more pleasure, joy and connection? What if there was one skill you could learn to unlock way more relaxation, arousal & orgasmic bliss – not to mention loving connection...
View ArticlePleasure Mechanics Courses on Beducated
★ We recently “got in bed” with the incredible team of erotic educators at Beducated.com – they reached out to us and asked to include our two raciest courses in their amazing library of online...
View ArticleFeeling Myself : Discovering Erotic Interoception
Interoception is known as the “eighth sensory nervous system” of humans – and is perhaps the most important sense that you’ve never heard of! Interoception is our human ability to feel the insides of...
View ArticleTen Ways To Become A Better Lover
In this encore episode we share the ten ways learning massage can make you a better lover. From learning how to use your hands to touch your lover’s most sensitive parts to communicating specific...
View ArticleFinding Just Right
How can we create deeply satisfying, fulfilling erotic experiences when what the body wants is so changeable and context-dependent? In this episode we explore how to find “just right” over and over...
View ArticleSex, Power and Creating Change
Sexual Empowerment is a term that gets used a lot, but what does it really mean? In this episode, we explore empowerment, Power Over vs. Power With, and more! This episode kicks of a mini series of...
View ArticleSex & Power In Marriage
How do power dynamics play out in your marriage? What are the hidden power struggles getting in the way of your happiness and fulfillment within your marriage? How can we reclaim marriage from it’s...
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