Jealousy, Arousal and Anxiety
Sexual jealousy has a big impact on arousal and erection. For some people, sexual jealousy can be a huge turn-on, and these people can harness jealousy and turn it into arousal. Other people feel...
View ArticleSex Lab!
Are you ready for a Sex Lab? The sex lab is a playful space where you can try new sexual activities, build new sexual skills, dip into new kinks or try on new erotic personas – without all the...
View ArticleStop Asking THIS Question
There is one question that can be a total mood killer in bed. When women hear this question, they suddenly feel like they need to switch into caretaker mode and protect his fragile ego. This question...
View ArticleTalking Sex with Sex Talk With My Mom
Karen Lee Poter and Cameron Poter are the mother/son team behind the irreverent podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. When we were in Los Angeles recently, we got together and recorded episodes for BOTH of...
View ArticleHave A Good Ask In Bed
How do you ask for what you want in bed? Do you wait around hoping your partner will know what you want? Do you send out subtle signals of sexual willingness- only to feel rejected when your partner...
View ArticleUrgent Update From The Pleasure Mechanics
Please tune in to find out what is going on here at Pleasure Mechanics, what you need to do so we can stay in touch, and how you can get involved and help us keep Pleasure Mechanics alive! Here is the...
View ArticleEmerging Out Of Sexual Hibernation
Sometimes, sexuality can go into a deep slumber – here is how to start emerging out of sexual hibernation. In this episode, we share from our current experience of emerging out of sexual hibernation....
View ArticleSurvivor’s Toolkit
The Survivor’s Toolkit is a collection of resources created by and designed for survivors of sexual trauma. The Survivor’s Toolkit offers you a wide range of tools to work with your trauma and...
View ArticleWriting As Erotic Practice
Can writing be a tool to unlock more erotic freedom and possibility? How does reading erotica help us discover what is possible for our own sex lives? In this interview, writer and writing workshop...
View ArticleWhy You Masturbate The Way You Do : A History Lesson
Why do so many people struggle with masturbation? Why do so many of us feel a little bit ashamed of solo sex, treating it like a dirty chore rather than a self-love practice that can bring tremendous...
View ArticleEnding Performance Anxiety with Vanessa Marin
Performance Anxiety is the primary sexual struggle of far too many men. What does performance anxiety even mean? What causes performance anxiety? How can guys overcome performance anxiety? What can...
View ArticleRethinking Sexual Performance Anxiety
Sexual performance anxiety is the most common sexual struggle for men. Almost all men experience sexual performance anxiety at one time or another, and many men suffer with it for years on end. So...
View ArticleBetter Sex Through Mindfulness with Lori Brotto
Twenty years after Viagra was approved to treat erectile issues in men, we still don’t have any quick fixes for the primary sexual struggle of women: low sexual desire. In this podcast interview,...
View ArticleEmily Nagoski Interview
Emily Nagoski is one of the most important thinkers in the field of sexuality. She does a remarkable job translating scientific and social knowledge into deeply personal stories and actionable...
View ArticleDual Control Model of Arousal
This episode covers one of the most important frameworks for understanding the human sexual experience: the dual control model of arousal. Get ready to rethink everything you know about getting turned...
View ArticleTransforming Rejection Into Refusal Encore Episode
Sexual rejection hurts – here is how to soften the blow when your partner initiates sex and you are not into it. The post Transforming Rejection Into Refusal Encore Episode appeared first on...
View ArticleGet Specific About Your Erotic Desires
One of the most important sexual skills to develop is the ability to get specific. Sexuality is a highly personal creation – the nuances of what lights you up is yours alone to discover, explore and...
View ArticleGetting Kinky In A Long Term Relationship
What happens when you are ready to explore kinky sex – but are already in a long term relationship? How do you begin to explore erotic power play – with your beloved spouse? What does it take to...
View ArticleTell Me What You Want: Exploring Sexual Fantasy with Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D.
What do your sexual fantasies reveal about who you are and what you want? Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D. joins us to discuss his new book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can...
View ArticleSurviving Sexless Seasons
All relationships have sexless seasons – periods of time where there is little or no sexual connection – here’s how to survive them so a sexless season doesn’t turn into a sexless marriage or...
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