How To Initiate Sex
Initiating sex can be scary, even in long term relationships. Here’s how to initiate (and refuse!) sex with skill and grace. If initiating sex terrifies you, you are not alone. In this episode we dive...
View ArticleAt The Male Strip Revue
Here’s what happened when we went to American Storm in Las Vegas – and came away with lots of ideas about unbridling women’s sexuality, integrating fantasy into domestic life, and men’s erotic...
View ArticleSex Out Of Obligation
Is it ever a good idea to have sex out of obligation? Do you owe your spouse a sex life? What is your obligation to your partner when it comes to sex? We hear variations of this question quite often,...
View ArticleI Want Sex – But Not With My Spouse
What happens when your sexual desire is alive and well – but you don’t want sex with your spouse? The one person you are supposed to have sex with is not the one lighting up your fantasies, and you...
View ArticleHookup Culture with Lisa Wade
Hookup culture is about more than casual sex. Hookup culture is part of today’s sexual landscape and affects all of us, whether or not we are in a relationship or single. Hookups are casual sexual...
View ArticleGreat Sex Books
We get lots of requests for recommended reading! Whether you want information on the history of sex culture, advice for keeping your marriage strong or steamy erotica, we’ve got you covered. We’ll keep...
View ArticleOrgies, Sex Parties and Sex Clubs
Ready for a new sexual adventure? Here is everything you need to know to take your first steps into the world of social sex clubs and sex parties. Sex clubs and sex parties offer a world of erotic...
View ArticleShedding The Stigma of Genital Herpes
If you are a sexually active adult, chances are you have been exposed to the herpes virus. Many people are silent carriers of the virus and will never have symptoms. But the social stigma and fear...
View ArticleThe Erotic Power of Couples Massage
Do you ever feel too stressed out for sex? Does it take too long to get turned on? Want to feel more aroused more efficiently? You are not alone! Most people struggle to get aroused – and stress is a...
View ArticleSex After Baby
How do you have sex after having a baby? How long should you wait to have sex after baby arrives? Will your sex life ever be the same after having a baby? We hear these questions about sex after...
View ArticleSex After Baby Part 2: On Being A Sexual Woman And A Mom
We continue the conversation we started last week about sex after baby arrives. In this episode we share thoughts on being both a sexual woman and a mom, and how to flip the switch between those...
View ArticleFirst Steps Into Kinky Sex
Want to explore kinky sex but worried you’ll get in over your head? Interested in a fetish or two, but wondering where it will lead? We often talk about what kinds of fantasies you might want to...
View ArticleThree Ways To Have More Fulfilling Sex
Ever wonder why some sex leaves you feeling kinda blah? Why is sex sometimes totally mind blowing and other times sex feels like a chore? Why does it feel like you and your partner are in two...
View ArticleBecoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz
Men have about three orgasms for every one a woman has in a long term relationship. This is not because women’s anatomy is more complicated! It turns out that the kind of sex most people are having is...
View ArticleSecret Handjob Techniques
When you are ready to unleash the true power of handjobs and learn these secrets from the pros you’ll definitely want to check out our complete video guide on it, which is part of the Foreplay Mastery...
View ArticleSurrendering Into Orgasm
Have you ever had trouble letting go of control long enough to have an orgasm with a partner? Here’s how to surrender into orgasm, on your own terms. Many women, especially those who like being in...
View ArticleBuilding Consent Culture with Kitty Stryker
Without consent, desire cannot flourish ~ Carol Queen Consent is far more than the absence of “no” – and is a vital social skill in and out of the bedroom. Consent culture is a critical piece of...
View ArticlePlayful Sex
Many people take sex way too seriously! Here’s how to make sex more playful, joyful and creative. Playful sex brings us back to the creative freedom of pure pleasure seeking play. When we can laugh...
View ArticleLust Vs. Disgust
Arousal makes us do crazy things, right? Even simple sex acts like open mouth kissing and oral sex seem strange if you think about them rationally for too long! Things we would never normally want to...
View ArticleThe Gender Galaxy
The gender galaxy is expanding – and opening up opportunities for us all. Learn all about transgender, genderqueer, genderfluid and cisgender identities, and find yourself in the gender galaxy! Learn...
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